Donnina learned she had breast cancer in November 2024. While she does have a history of breast cancer on her father’s side of the family, genetic tests were negative. This is her story in her own words.
A Complicated Relationship
I’ve always had a complicated relationship with my breasts. They started growing when I was 12, and I’ve complained about them ever since. I couldn’t wear cute bathing suit tops, strapless dresses or find bras that fit right. I was waiting for the day I could have the surgery of my dreams: a breast lift with a slight reduction.
A Dream Come True
And guess what? That dream came true last year when I was 45. I was over the moon with the results. My breasts were perky and a little smaller, so I could finally buy the cutest bralettes and strappy sports bras. I was so excited about that. I had even started picking some out. But then came the call from my surgeon. She had automatically sent my breast tissue out for pathology as part of her normal procedure.
Pathology Results
The pathology results from my right breast came back positive for DCIS (ductal carcinoma in situ) or stage 0. I was shocked to hear the words breast cancer. I immediately started googling the diagnosis. My surgeon told me that stage 0 is very treatable and referred me to an oncologist.
Double Mastectomy
I was stunned. I went to see the oncologist, who was very thorough but had to refer me to a doctor in my network, who recommended I get a double mastectomy with reconstruction. My husband and I were shocked, overwhelmed, confused and distraught. After seeing my current oncologist and a radiologist, we all agreed that recommendation was the best option for me.
A Traumatic Day
I had to get through the holidays, have a breast MRI (that was fun) and genetic testing, all leading up to what would be the most traumatic surgery of my life, my double mastectomy. I also had to wrap my head around losing my breasts that have been a part of me and who I was for all these years.
Recovery & Next Steps
I’m recovering from my double mastectomy and reconstruction and am grateful the surgeries went well. I may have to have radiation and/or nipple removal for my right breast because there are still microscopic cancer cells in two different areas of the breast.
I still ask myself how I got here and if I’ll ever feel like the same person I was when I had my dream surgery just a few months ago. This journey is tough, emotional, physical and mental. It’s probably the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. But I’m so grateful for my doctors and my support system of family and friends.
Moving Forward
My advice is to take it one day at a time. We are stronger than we think. Be your own advocate and do what feels right for you. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help and resources. Hearing other women’s stories has really helped me through mine. Talking to others has made me feel less alone.
Statements and opinions expressed are that of the individual and do not express the views or opinions of Susan G. Komen. This information is being provided for educational purposes only and is not to be construed as medical advice. Persons with breast cancer should consult their healthcare provider with specific questions or concerns about their treatment.
