Allison King was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in March 2024. This is her story in her own words.
At 30 years old, with two small children at home, I was faced with the unimaginable — being diagnosed with breast cancer. Life as I knew it came to a halt. But through a mix of determination, love for my children, and support from family and friends, I learned how to navigate a journey I never expected.
Being There for My Children While Undergoing Treatment
One of the biggest challenges was balancing my health and motherhood. As a mother of young children, I had always been the one to care for them, to be their source of comfort and stability. But now, I found myself in need of care, too. Chemotherapy, surgery and radiation therapy made everyday tasks feel overwhelming.
I would often not feel well and be in pain, but my children still needed me. They needed me to be present, to smile, to hug them and to play with them. At times, I felt as if I were failing them, but I also knew that showing them how to fight with courage, even when life is hard, was just as important as providing their everyday care.
Dealing with Uncertainty
Another challenge was dealing with the uncertainty. Breast cancer doesn’t come with a roadmap, and every doctor’s visit, every scan, was filled with unknowns. The emotional toll was immense.
I had moments of fear and frustration. Would I be around to see my children grow up? Would I be the mom I always dreamed of being? These questions lingered, and yet, I had to keep going — one day at a time, even when I felt like the weight of the world was on my shoulders.
Financial Pressures
Financial pressures also added another layer of stress. The cost of treatments, medications and doctor visits quickly added up. Thankfully, my family, friends and community were there to support me. I am so grateful.
Finding Beauty & Growth
But through it all, there were moments of beauty and growth. I learned to appreciate the small, everyday moments with my children — the laughter, the hugs, the quiet moments of just being together.
I found strength in places I didn’t know existed and became more resilient than I ever thought possible, and my love for my children became my greatest motivator to keep fighting.
Life After Breast Cancer
Today, as I reflect on my journey, I am proud of how far I’ve come. I am grateful for the people who held me up when I couldn’t stand on my own. I know that this experience has shaped me into a person who is not only a fighter, but also a wife and mother with a deeper appreciation for life and the incredible love I have for my family. Breast cancer may have been a challenge I never expected, but it has made me stronger, more compassionate and even more dedicated to being the best person and mother I can be.
Statements and opinions expressed are that of the individual and do not express the views or opinions of Susan G. Komen. This information is being provided for educational purposes only and is not to be construed as medical advice. Persons with breast cancer should consult their health care provider with specific questions or concerns about their treatment.
Komen has educational resources that can help explain breast cancer to children, including Talking with Your Children About Breast Cancer and What’s Happening to Mom.
